‘Some people are so afraid to die
that they never begin to live.’
-Henry Van Dyke
If anything can be said about my late brother and friend, James
Ocholi, SAN it must be first that he was never one of those timorous souls who
never begin to live because they are struck numb with the fear of dying.
James grabbed life by the jugular and squeezed his due from its
clenched fist. Extinguished at such a relatively young age, the outpourings of
grief across the length and breadth of Nigeria tells us he collected every
debt owed to him by life and mortality. That like the quintessential lawyer he
was, he covered the field.
The old hymn says it best:
Only remembered, only remembered,
Only remembered by what we have done;
Thus would we pass from the earth and its toiling,
Only remembered by what we have done.
Only remembered by what we have done;
Thus would we pass from the earth and its toiling,
Only remembered by what we have done.
James started succeeding early, and by his achievements drafted an
airtight brief on how to live life well – with urgency, making massive impact
as one goes. Everyone from the President and Commander-in-Chief to the lowliest
beneficiaries of his greatness in Dekinato many other places known and unknown
are mourning him today.
In the words of the Chief Justice of Nigeria, Justice Mariam
AloomaMuhktar (as she then was) during a valedictory session like this one held
for the Late Justice C. Oputa in June 2014, it goes without saying that James
Ocholi, SAN was and remains‘…a legend, a
legal icon, a distinguished jurist and a complete gentleman…(who) …earned an
infallible reputation as a legal practitioner…(and)…drew respect by his air of
quiet dignity.’
I cite with whole-hearted approval the further words of Her
Lordship at that occasion:
‘His manner, demeanour and
way of speaking readily showed his depth of character, intelligence and
breeding. He proved himself a brilliant, honest and most
respectable legal practitioner.’
Nothing else remains to
adumbrate in this brief written address but to humbly adopt the words of Her
Lordship as my own and declare them utterly referable to my brother, James Ocholi,
SAN.
A
fortiori, I wish to strongly submit that the late Learned Silk
lived well. I therefore urge this assemblage of the best legal minds in our
country to hold that our brother is not death, but sleeping. We will therefore
not allow grief to blind us to his sterling accomplishments, or to the fact
that he, being dead, yet speaks.
The Kogi State Government and the people of Kogi State
shall never forget James. We will see to that by seeking creative ways to
immortalize his memory. We shall remember his surviving children, and show them
love as indigenes of Kogi
State in their own
personal rights as well as the Children of our friend, James Ocholi, SAN.
Blessing, his dear wife and Joshua his beloved son who died with him
are also within my contemplation in this address. They helped to make James the
man he was. Their support and cheerleading put the wind in his sail. Like
himself, they too will be sorely missed.
Ladies and Gentlemen, may God be merciful to each and every one of us
and continually deliver us from accidents and untoward incidents.
Thank you.
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